How To Find A Right Ukrainian Woman And Not To Get Scammed

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Now, when you know from our experience, that it is highly probable to find the right Ukrainian woman online, you will be ready to do the first step towards your happiness, won’t you? So, I guess, first your question will be “where?” Where do I look? Well, you have a huge choice of dating services online, but I think, it would be more reasonable to choose a website where REAL PEOPLE have found their soul mates and got married, like us.
Ok, you made your choice of online dating service and I know, what is your second question after that. How? "How to attract a beautiful, kind and REAL Ukrainian woman? How should my profile on the dating website look? What pictures are best to post?"

Without any doubts, your profile on the dating website is very important. For the years of my online searches I saw hundreds men’s profiles and now I want to give you some tips, how your profile should look to attract a right woman; in other words, woman who are not looking for the games online, but for a good husband and family happiness.

Three tips to your profile

1.You better answer all the questions in your profile: about your personality, interests and what kind of person you are looking for.
Many dating websites will ask you to write a personal message, so, if you really want to find a good woman, please do not write a novel, otherwise girls like us will think you are just a big stories teller and nothing more.
But if your personal story will be too short, as one sentence like “I am a great guy”, or if you will decide not to write your personal message at all, serious women will think, you are dull or you got some mental problems. So, one or two paragraphs of your personal message are enough.
2. If you know somebody, who already is happily married to a Ukrainian woman, do not forget to note it in your personal message. It works. Also, if you have any connection to Ukraine (relatives, friends, Ukrainian descent), state that too. It works very well. For example, I knew right away from the personal message of my future husband that his ancestors were Ukrainian and it actually caught my eye and it was one of reasons why I answered him. If you happened to be in Ukraine already, it would be good to say it too in your profile, desirably with a short explanation as to why you have visited Ukraine (traveling, business, visiting relatives); otherwise good women can think you are simply a sex-tourist and that you are not very serious about finding your destiny.
3. In writing your profile, do not forget to answer all the questions about your profession and occupation, otherwise women will think that you are not able to support a family. Of course, you want that your new girlfriend will fall in love with you for your personality and not for your occupation. Believe experience of our husbands, if you really will find a right Ukrainian woman, she will estimate you for your personality first.
But, excuse me, I am sure, your beautiful personality will want to eat something once in while, and personalities of your future wife and children as well, so you better tell in your profile what are you doing for living.
Do not be shy, if you have a simple occupation like bus driver or postman. Say it! Only some very young and naive Slavic girls, without any life experience, may think that all the western men on the dating websites are billionaires. Ukrainian women ages 20-25 understand very well that not everyone can be a Bill Gates.
If you are currently without a job, be honest and put “temporarily unemployed” in your profile. But, of course, you better have a job, because it does cost a fair bit of money to bring a foreign wife to your country; such as the visa expenses, plane tickets, oh my! But, for our husbands’ opinion, all these expenses were worth to bring us to their countries :)

Three tips to your photographs

1. It is the best to have your profile with your picture than without one. At the same time, it is not necessary to publish a whole gallery of your images; just two-three pictures are enough, although one is ok too, if it is really good one. But! Your picture (pictures) better not be when you were 20-30 years old if you are now 40-50 years old. A smart Ukrainian woman will recognize that your photos were taken in 1970’s and 80’s by quality of pictures or by the old fashion in clothes etc. Ukrainian ladies like us simply will not believe that you live in such developed country and you cannot afford a modern picture of good quality. So, if you cannot afford even a good picture for yourself, how will you be able to keep a future family? I do not mean that you necessarily need to go to a professional photographer and pay him for your photo session. On contrary, I am sure that in your archives you have some “live”, dynamic picture of you in real life: where you are doing some sport, where you are traveling, fishing, cooking etc. Also it is not a good idea to publish your picture with your cool car or your house on background: a good woman will not react for such a profile and she will rather think you are showing off what you own and not yourself. Oh, I almost forgot the main thing: please smile on your picture! If you got a great smile, a good Ukrainian woman will not notice your beer belly if you have one :)
2. Speaking about bellies. If you indented to post your half-naked picture in your profile, I would not recommend you do that, even if you have a body of Apollo and you are dying to show it to the pretty girls. Maybe for some another girls it will work, but not for serious and modest Ukrainian ladies like us. Good Ukrainian woman doesn’t choose a man for his body shape; she checks his personality first. Well, guys, can you imagine, what would happen, if women would pick YOU on just how you are picking them: are you good looking or you are not? Guess, who would get a match then? Right, it would be only those of you, which are very handsome. What do the other have to do, the ones who have a big heart, but who do not happen to look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney?
So, if you really want to find a nice woman to build a family with, you better think first of what to write about yourself. Because if you put on your profile the greatest picture of your muscles and zero information at the same time, you will not get a letter from a good woman, you will rather attract a superficial and immature girl.
3. Another “don’t” in choosing of your photos for your dating profile: a picture where you “cut off” from somebody else, especially from a woman! It is very bad idea. During my Internet searches for a partner I saw some divorced men’s profiles with their ex-wedding photos: they just cut off the ex-brides (wives) from themselves on the pictures, and that’s it. They were probably thinking that a whole bunch of love thirsty Ukrainian beauties would be happy to see this. One time I found a profile of guy with his wedding photo where he didn’t even cut off his ex-wife from the picture: he just cut a hole where her head was. Really!!! Why to make everything so complicated? Welcome new bride to this vacant place!
I would like to explain to you guys: when a good Ukrainian woman notices another woman’s hand on your shoulder (even if it is in the picture), you will NEVER get a letter from her, you will rather get from someone who is a scammer. Scammers usually do not care for any other women’s fingers with manicure on your hand, because scammer’s goal is your money, but not your hand and your heart.

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